until I know how to weep with all my heart, I will never know how to love with all my heart either.

Tim Dayton wrote,


"If my unconscious carries a silent wound

I will always be black and blue inside.

I will not be able to approach situations
with open eyes for fear they will trigger
that un felt pain.

The grief that I carry hidden in silence
has great power over my life and my relationships....

Until I understand my grief
and allow myself to know it,
I will not be free of its grip."

God determines who walks into your life. You decide who stays and who walks out. Give this message to people you never wish to lose ..